Have you ever wondered about those people who seem to live under a rainbow with a horseshoe tied around their neck? The ones who are incredibly lucky and blessed? I used to, and then I realized that if I wanted to experience a better lot in life, my attitude towards it had to change. I was typically Canadian, quite polite but with a penchant for complaining. It seems we are all hard-wired for that kind of negativity, and it is a struggle not only to recognize it when you’re operating from that mindset, but also to do something about it.

Now, there are people who believe in the law of attraction. And there are people who believe in the power of prayer. And still more who believe in speaking forth their expectations and that God/Goddess/the Universe/magical beings will bring it into existence for them. At the core of each of these is the pronouncement of what one wants, and the action is believing they can have it. But does it work?

Well, I’ve done all of those, with varying results. I try to get my mind into the sphere of positivity and believing I am worthy of good things (which sometimes means giving myself a talking to, repeating a phrase over and over until my mind catches hold). Working on one’s positivity and optimism is always a good thing. It helps you see the blessings around you so you can be grateful, and it also helps you to realize that you have the ability to help others who aren’t perhaps as blessed or optimistic as you are. One way is to just be kind. It costs nothing and you can really make a difference in someone’s day. Don’t believe me? Treat a customer service associate with kindness and respect and watch their countenance turn from indifference to a smile.

The more you work towards optimism and gratitude, the more life seems to get a little sweeter and maybe even a little easier. Try to place your expectations upon positive things, instead of negative ones. Don’t say you’ll never be able to do this or have that, because if you’re saying it, it is probably going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy on your life.

Remember this: You are the authority in your life and your mind believes everything you tell it. So watch what you say about yourself, and start the process of saying and expecting good things, and see what happens!